Relationship Problems Chats

- It's useful to remember that we are not here to fix the situation, rather we are here to just listen and support.

Useful Questions

- Have you shared with them that you feel this way?

- Do you have anyone outside of the relationship to support you?

- What are some things you like to do outside of your relationship? (what are your hobbies?)

- What do you do to cope or calm down after they ____?

- If a friend came to you saying their partner did X, what would you tell them?

-When was the last time you two were happy with each other? (sensitive question here)

Useful Phrases

- I just want to let you know that this is a safe space to vent and I won’t share anything you tell me here.

- I can see this relationship/they are very important to you.

- It looks like you’ve put a lot of work into this relationship.

- It was very mature of you to ____

- It must be really frightening and stressful to have your relationship be in trouble.

- Many people feel very alone when they are suffering relationship problems. I just want to let you know that while we’re in this room talking, I'm here for you.

- It sounds like this problem is really affecting your life in other ways, like your job or your schooling.

Original post in this thread by @SamanthaH, send them a thanks!

A Helpful Resource that could be suggested to the member: When You Feel Let Down in a Relationship