How to Fight Better
To argue more effectively, try to get beyond the idea of "winning" or "losing" an argument. Start seeing your conversational partner as just that, a partner. You are partners in a search for solutions together, not in opposition.
Watch the following video and answer the questions below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvkGdeAodvQ&t=64s
What does Esther Perel mean by the term 'Kitchen-sinking'?
What are some tips on how can we communicate more effectively during the fight?