Harland Curtis, MS, LMHC, understands the universal human need for both inclusion and separateness, and he brings this insight into his compassionate practice with couples. He guides partners in identifying their emotional needs and articulating them effectively, fostering a confident dialogue about their individual differences and shared aspirations. When couples find themselves trapped in gridlock patterns that lead to conflict or avoidance, Harland assists them in stepping back to explore their internal frustrations and unmet needs, encouraging them to connect on a deeper emotional level rather than projecting their feelings onto one another. Utilizing Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), he empowers couples to transition from defensive interactions toward a shared understanding of their emotional and practical needs. Harland is certified with Advanced Training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and specializes in helping distressed partners navigate the complexities of boundary intrusions and self-protective behaviors, ultimately guiding them to hear and comprehend each other's emotional needs for love and safety.