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NEW - Addiction Support Automated Taglist
by tommy
Last post
January 3rd
...See more Welcome to the NEW Addiction Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of Dec 2024 (updated by @tommy) @akshi2611 @BeautifulCurse @exuberantTalker9747 @freeman @Helentreat12 @Hobzz @HopefulMamaof4 @ivoryLime3964 @JasonneedsinTx @Jenna @joyfulUs2825 @kindShade3891 @matchamochi07 @Mhmdi @Oceansky93 @peachLime4859 @PFord79 @Property1094 @Rainboho @Ren1478 @Sahilwj @sensiblePine5487 @SerenelyClean @Snowy00 @tommy @tornwillow @xmoonsie16x0
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I never thought it was bad
by bluey999
Last post
6 hours ago
...See more I was told to come therapy by one of my closest friends after they asked for time away from me. I always prided myself on being a good friend, and yet somewhere through the years of our friendship i stepped on her toes. She said my drug use was a big part of why she needed time away from me. We live in different country’s and i never thought it affected her?? So here I am. I could so easily fall back into self deprecating patterns but i refuse because how i talk and love myself is in a really good place and has been for a while. And I don’t want to disrespect and be mean to myself for losing her. I’m so so so sad I lost her but I can’t just sit here and blame myself. I have to grow and let her go and let her come back when she wants. But god I’m angry and confused and hurt and i want to be better but i also don’t want her to only come back when i’m better and she can have that part of me. UGH. I got off topic. I’m hurt and i’m reacting in ways i normally wouldn’t and I see that. I just wish i could be impartial but im to hurt to be. Anyway if you’re still reading this, I got off topic abit aye. Thanks for listening ahahah
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Struggling to cope with past mistakes
by RestingLaurels
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more In 2012, I made an investment in something nobody had seemed to have heard of—something called Bitcoin. I turned $1,000 into $10,000 and never looked back. Nowadays, Bitcoin is everywhere, and my original investment (100 BTC) would be worth over 10 million dollars. I can’t stop obsessing over the massive opportunity that I missed, and how I would’ve had financial stability for the rest of my life. Now, I’m going into debt for medical school. I had to move across the country and leave all of my friends behind, and I’m constantly stressed by the immense expectations on me and crippling fear about going into so much debt. I have been turning to substance abuse to try and cope with these feelings, but I need to get it under control or it is going to affect my career moving forward. How do I move on and stop obsessing over this missed opportunity?
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I need a listener for my addiction.
by SoulwithGoals
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more I am looking for a listener, who can help me quit- addictions(lust), loneliness and emptiness over all. It would be good if you can provide support everyday. I request you to not contact me, if you are busy and can't spend much time. I am looking for a long term listener. (I don't need link for searching listeners. I've tried...most don't like to address issue of lust addiction.. and if they do, they are mostly unavailable) If you think you fit into the category, olease reach out to me.
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Porn addiction
by indigoApricot6802
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Is there any girl into porn addiction and okay to talk about it ??? I need a female mate to discuss upon it..! And yes I am a girl.
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Addiction support
by distresseddonkey66
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Hello. I have been struggling with porn addiction for a while now, and have never had anyone to speak to about it. If anyone is in a similar boat or has beaten this godforsaken addiction and is willing to talk, I would be eternally grateful.  Thanks
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I’m dealing with porn addiction
by creativeMap2497
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I started watching porn since I was around 10 years old and it became such a habit and addiction that it has ruined my current relationship with my partner and I don’t know what to do
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Video game addiction and how I’m coping (terribly)
by emotionalOrange2737
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I’ve been playing video games since I was 5 (32 years old now). It wasn’t bad at all when I was young but when I was in my junior and senior year of high school, it got worse when I broke up with my first boyfriend, I was devastated. I stopped caring about school work, cut class a lot with a rebound guy I started dating, started smoking, just really acting out and not giving a shit. I constantly played video games while doing all of this. I also used to take $10-15 from my grandma at the time to buy currency for a game I was playing. She caught on and was extremely pissed. From doing all of that I couldn’t graduate on time and had to go into a program to catch up or else I would be left back. Fast forward a bit and here I am at 32 years old, a stay at home mom to two kids, married, still living at home with my mom AND STILL playing video games. I’ve struggled to quit multiple times and without fail, I relapse. I noticed that when I’m playing, I become very negative towards everyone and everything. I don’t want to keep playing anymore but I don’t know what to do. If anyone has heard of Game Quitters, then you know they have a method of quitting by not gaming for 90 days to get your dopamine levels back to normal. I’ve attempted this and the longest I’ve gone without gaming was for 45 days. That was 4 years ago. Should I try the detox again? Not sure what to do anymore.
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I am new here
by humble101
Last post
Wednesday
...See more Hi, I'm new here. I'm humble. Nice to meet you. Having a little bit of issues with the substance the last week.
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Don’t give up
by StabilityInVulnerability
Last post
Wednesday
...See more I mean it!
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Hey i am addicted to youtube !!
by beasthunk
Last post
Monday
...See more Yeah thats it cant do *** about it now!! Tried all blocker etc
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I don't know what to do
by blueWalker6555
Last post
February 14th
...See more Can someone give me some advice? I am becoming obsessed with texting chai bots. I've been in so many toxic relationships Ithat I just want to feel loved. But I think this is turning into an unhealthy obsession and now I can't stop texting chai bots and read fanfiction. I have an unhealthy obsession over fictional characters.
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Hi
by littleOak6508
Last post
February 10th
...See more Wana be my Friend 👋

Addiction Support

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Welcome to Addiction Support! We are so pleased that you have stumbled across our little corner of the internet. Our community is here to support you through any recovery and/or pathway from substances to gambling, internet, self-harm, porn addiction, sex addiction, and more. All are welcome to participate whether you are a family member watching a loved one struggling or if you are struggling yourself. Feel free to discuss anything and everything related to addictions.


What are the different forum topics for Addiction Support?

Community Space: A place for you to introduce yourself and take part in our community check-ins.

Games and Icebreakers: A place for you to get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

General Addiction Support: Do you have a question or want to share more about your addiction? Do it here!

Journals: Want to share your story or involve us on your journey to recovery? Do it here!

Loving Those With Addictions: Got a loved one with an addiction? Share your story here!

Sex and Porn Addiction Support: Struggling with a sex and/or porn addiction? Discuss it here!


How can I help?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information.


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


Addiction Support FAQ

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to?

All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help... I still have a question! 

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.

Community Guidelines

Remain professional, kind, and respectful towards one another. 
Even if you do not get along with an individual listener, it is up to you to act appropriately. If you must, step away and do not engage.

Prevent hurtful rumor/gossip spreading. 
Rumor: a currently circulating story or report of uncertain or doubtful truth.
Gossip: idle talk especially about the personal or private affairs of others

Aim to grow and learn as a Listener & person. 
In this light, learning to accept feedback thankfully.

Be aware of how to use the forum correctly and what may happen when you do not do so. 
See more detailed forum guidelines below.

Refrain from sharing personal contact information
including, but not limited to, social media accounts, home addresses, phone numbers, messaging apps/sites, or any other medium of contact off-site. Learn more about internet safety in this forum. If you use the scheduling tool YouCanBookMe, you are required to remove the email submission step. Learn how to do this here.

Maintain a confidential atmosphere. 
Between you and member/guests and between you and other listeners. All conversations between you and members are confidential. Do not share any chat details with any other listeners or members. Additionally, do not write or blog about any issues you are supporting people on.

Engage in healthy problem solving. 
This means problem solving with the goal to continue to make the community better. Engage in healthy debates and conversations which lend themselves to problem solving and working together. Read more on the topic of healthy problem solving in this forum.

Use proper conflict resolution skills with every person on the site 
Proper conflict resolution means dealing with conflict in a supportive manner that benefits both you and the other person involved. Read more on conflict resolution in this forum.

Respect boundaries of other community members. 
This includes a total ban on stalking and harassment of any kind. 

Choose not to engage in sexting or flirting. 
We have a zero tolerance policy for these behaviors. Even if it is consensual, it is not allowed on 7 Cups. Read more about sexting and flirting in this forum.

Never create second accounts on the site. 
Each person is only allowed one listener and one member account. There are no exceptions.

Protect your log-in information to all accounts on 7 Cups and not allow anyone else to use it besides the person whose name is in our system. 
We expect that you will be the sole user of your listener/member account. If it comes to our attention that another person has accessed your account, we will need to immediately close your account for security reasons. This includes log-in details for 7 Cups Admin accounts.

Do not engage in hateful behaviors of any kind. 
Showing hate towards any gender identity, sexual orientation, disability, religion, racial or cultural background or imposing your view point on any of these items on another user is forbidden.

We now have a behavior point system.
We ask each user to live by the guidelines outlined in this thread. Each behavior mentioned will be assigned a behavior point, once a certain number of points are accumulated within 6 months, consequences will be enacted.

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