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possibly thrown into perimenopause?

littleLemon4973 June 27th, 2023

Had a tubal ligation then went off the pill 2 years ago after being on the pill for 22 years. Now I feel like I'm going crazy. Anxiety is much worse, 10-12 pound weight gain mostly in the belly, I'm tired all the time, night sweats, much more irritable and emotional, no excitement over much anymore, vertigo, high blood pressure. Just really don't feel like myself anymore. I feel like I'm going crazy some days and have no control over my body anymore. I thought in time it would get better but 2 years is along time. I spent at least a year going to different doctors and getting tests and they all sent me out the door. I spoke to a naturopath who said she could help but she is not covered by insurance and I can't afford it so I did my own research and tried some supplements which really didn't seem to help. I'm giving it one last ditch effort and seeing a new dr that supposedly specializes in mid life hormones in a few weeks but other than that I feel stuck here. Anyone else??

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Mya000 June 28th, 2023

@littleLemon4973 I'm so sorry to hear about the difficulties you've been facing since going off the pill and entering perimenopause. It can be an incredibly challenging and confusing time. The symptoms you described, such as increased anxiety, weight gain, fatigue, night sweats, irritability, and emotional changes, are commonly reported during this transitional phase.

It's frustrating when you seek help from various doctors and don't feel heard or understood. Seeing a new doctor who specializes in mid-life hormones is a positive step forward. They may have a deeper understanding of the hormonal changes occurring during perimenopause and can offer appropriate guidance and treatment options.

In the meantime, you're not alone in this experience. Many women go through similar challenges during perimenopause. It can be helpful to connect with others who have been through or are currently going through this phase. Sharing your experiences and hearing from others can provide a sense of support and validation.

Remember to be patient with yourself during this process. Finding the right treatment or management strategies may take time and experimentation. Taking care of your overall well-being through healthy lifestyle choices, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, stress reduction techniques, and good sleep hygiene, can also have a positive impact.

I hope the upcoming appointment with the specialist proves helpful and brings you closer to finding the support and solutions you need. You deserve to feel like yourself again and regain a sense of control over your body and emotions.

Please know that I'm here to listen and support you through this journey. Feel free to reach out whenever you need someone to talk to. Take care.