@BeKind1989
i am so sorry to hear you're struggling with your self-image. i am sending you so many hugs (if comfortable) and good thoughts. what is it about yourself that you don't like?
doubt it lol prob fly af 😂
@BeKind1989 I get you're feeling down, and I'm sorry you're going through this. The people who make you feel ugly? They’re the real ugly ones. I recently read an article about acid attack survivors—people who had their faces disfigured, half their face burned, and lost their vision. Who do you think is ugly? The survivors or the ones who threw the acid? It really shows how narrow society’s idea of beauty and ugliness is. Don’t shrink yourself to fit into that shoebox by cutting out pieces of yourself.
If I asked you who you think is beautiful, I bet they wouldn’t fit any of those ‘perfect’ standards. Real beauty’s about owning who you are—flaws and all. Also, we’re a society that’s collectively decided the Beast in Beauty and the Beast was more handsome before he turned human. So, if you’re feeling ugly because you don’t have horns and fur, I’m afraid I can’t help you there.
Sometime it is likely impossible to accept yourself I guess. For myself I just go to surgery at some point and feels great after. But better to start from therapy and if not helps do surgery. You know, it may be just destroying thoughts from your childhood or something like it, and then surgery can cut out your unique personality in appearance.
@BeKind1989 I'm sure you don't look ugly. I felt the same way until I listened to one song. I listen to it daily to make me feel better about myself. I'm sure you need a confidence boost.
This is the song if you want to listen: https://open.spotify.com/track/6uIRaU6EFvhAjYm7spHVeA?si=8533845168d24b60
real but once you wear the right stuff we be looking fly af
