Point me in the right direction?

Okay well... Hiya I am Jasper. I am a sex-repulsed asexual trans boy. I suffer from schizoaffective bipolar type and other mental issues. I am a nsagere and it is kinda advised to talk to me kinda like a child (soft, compationate, patient, etc). I have trouble understanding things and focusing. I kinda do not know where I fit in these categories seeing as there is no mental category for schizo people...