Chat delays

@ArisingVoice48

I usually tolerate up to 15 minutes.

I also think that when the member has been silent for about 10 minutes without saying goodbye or anything else, that's when the listener ought to ask something like, "Is there anything else you'd like to share?"

@11820Read thanks, that's very helpful!

@ArisingVoice48 I usually allow up to three minutes between messages. After about four minutes I ask another question, and if there's still no response I follow up by saying we can chat again later and preparing to leave.

Usually about ten minutes after the member's last message I would leave the chat.

Charlie

@ArisingVoice48 I do what @RarelyCharlie said. After waiting a 2 or 3 minutes in between questions, I give a gentle warning that I will consider the chat over in 5 or 10 minutes. I know sometimes people struggle to find the words to explain or they may be struggling with their emotions, so I try to be patient with them. I would want the same from a listener if I was reaching out.

@ArisingVoice48

I guess it depends on your individual preference. I wait 5 minutes, then ask if they're there. If no response for another 5 or I see them go offline I end the chat.