I need advice
this might sound really stupid but Ive been meeting up with a man, who I know will never be the man for me, who I know has contact with other girls and who I know will never love me. Its basically a sexual thing, and I know it and im ok with it. The thing is - I can’t stop thinking about him, if he’s going to talk to me, if we’re meeting, it seems like I keep waiting for him to say something and when he does I just feel like going.
what I need help with - i basically need advice on how to stop thinking about it and anticipating it . I dont want to keep waiting on the message . Any advice?
@sincerenessie
that ok but have you tried writing it all down to try to capture your thoughts in a diary or something like that?
I have, but I still don’t know why I react this way and I wish I could just stop thinking about it and anticipating it
@sincerenessie sounds like a tricky situation...it sounds like this person is fulfilling a need for you. What need do you think that might be? Are there other areas in your life you can have this need met so you don't need to rely on him alone to meet it?
It's quite normal and natural to think about someone who has caught your fancy. The best thing would be to distract your mind and attention with other activities and people to replace your thoughts about him. Trust me in no time will you be thinking less and less about the person concerned.
Wish you all the best.
Have a wonderful 2023.
🌹 Tani🌹
@sincerenessie
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