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Hi I'm new. I'm glad to be part of this community. I suffer from emotional attachment and overcoming health problems. I have anxiety and depression.
@Sunflower5522 hi sweetie ❤ I'm Lola, welcome to our cups family ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
Thank you so much. Thus message has already made me smile😊💕
@Sunflower5522 have you had chance to explore the site yet?
I have but I'm having a hard time trying to get listeners and when I join support groups I pretty much get ignored or I'm not even seen. 🙃
@Sunflower5522 ohhh! The rooms can be challenging at first it's hard to find your voice🙁 sorry about that. And sometimes the listener waiting times can be a little long😕 but the forums are fun😁 check out our icecbreaker/game forums, they are always fun😁 ❤❤ hugs you tightly, I hope you have better luck today ❤
Thank you. I will try that today. :)
Where do I find icebreaker/games forums? I seem to be lost
@Sunflower5522 see the box at the top of the screen? With two heads in it, press in that and it will take you to all the forums ❤
Ah yes. I thought it was just a title 😂 thank you. You're so kind and helpful ☺️
How come I cant change my profile picture ? It says "not allowed to change profile picture"
@Sunflower5522 hey pooks, been going through the same stuff as your are. If you need to talk, im always here.
Thank you I appreciate it very much. I'd love to talk about this with you
Just thought I'd check in on you as well. I hope your day is going well. I was wondering how you manage to pass your time or perhaps distract yourself when it comes to these things?
Greetings, sunflower! If you are seeking a helping hand, I am here :-)
Thank you so much ! :)
Didn't finish my message there 😂 but I would be glad to seek help from you !
I can listen without judgement like a true stranger
Thank you 😊
Just thought I'd add more to this post, I was in a rough roller coaster situation for a solid year. I almost lost my life due to health. At the same time I was also in a relationship, which lead that person to leave me when I was in critical condition. Having emotional attachment is a curse and also a blessing. I care and love too much. I have the fear of not being accepted and being lonely. I am still with that person, but I've become someone I'm not. I've become too scared to walk away. The fear of being alone. 4 years is a long time to just throw away. And I'm one to work on relationships. Not walk away when things get hard.
Hi I feel your pain. Your story replicates mine and it's good to see that someone feels and understands the feeling. I'm sorry that your heart us aching. One thing is they will never admit they are wrong. They will tell you things to hurt you and then love bomb you. I'm still stuck in my relationship, and hoping for it to change but I'm threatened, like he has given me a date and if I don't succeed then he will remove me from his life for good. I'm here if you ever wanna talk more about it. Just comment under this.
Just thought I'd more to this post, I was in a rough roller coaster situation for a solid year. I almost lost my life due to health. At the same time I was also in a relationship, which lead that person to leave me when I was in critical condition. Having emotional attachment is a curse and also a blessing. I care and love too much. I have the fear of not being accepted and being lonely. I am still with that person, but I've become someone I'm not. I've become too scared to walk away. The fear of being alone. 4 years is a long time to just throw away. And I'm one to work on relationships. Not walk away when things get hard.
@Sunflower5522 wow you almost lost your life to health reasons🙁 that's rough 😥 but I've almost lost my life too because of health, so I understand, bless you ❤ your a good guy with a very big heart ❤ I'm not one to give relationship advice, cause I've never dated, but make sure the relationship is making you happy and at ease ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
It's good to see that others know the feeling. And if anything I'm a woman. It's like 2024/25 has just drastically. Life hasn't been the same since covid. And I'm sure it's hard for everyone. You're doing an amazing job already by being helpful 👏 ❤️
@Sunflower5522 in so sorry, I don't know why I write guy, it's just guess work here🙁 I'm sorry sweetie. Yeah covid changed the world in so many different ways, I'm sorry it has effected you do badly. Your doing a amazing job reaching out and posting your story. You should be very proud of yourself ❤ hugs you tightly ❤ I'm here if there's anything I can do to help you ❤
Thank you so much. I'd love if you could be my listener. 😇
@Sunflower5522 I'm sorry sweetie I'm not a listener, I'm just a member🙁 have you managed to talk to any listeners yet??
@Sunflower5522
Hi Sun!
I hope you're settling in well here and can get help with what you're struggling with. Depression and anxiety are really tough, I know because I have them too. I’m here to help if you ever want to talk!<3
Hi! I'm doing okay, I am managing, my health is on track and I have started exercising to keep me going. Bless your wonderful soul. I hope you're doing well too and I hope your day is just amazing as you are ❤️
@Sunflower5522 welcome, I suffer with anxiety to. I hope you find what you need here 💜
Thank you. I'm sure I will. And I hope you're doing okay
@Sunflower5522
Hey! I am also a new member. I want to connect! :)
