Kinda confused, looking for adivce.
Im new, Im 19 male. Thank you for you valuable time, I gonna be quick and I gonna put out all details.I wont bother you too much. Thank you for any advice.
So a girl has been looking at me for 7 months, made lots of eye contact but she never smiled, I went to her I froze up but said "sorry to bother you, I think you are intresting and I want to know you" she said she will add me, never did until I ignored her for a week but she removed me in a min, I dont know why...
I also sent her 2 texts, "I find you intresting and I want to know you cuz we been looking at each other" she left on delivered for 1 month but entire time she would still look at me and then she left on seen, after that she would still look at me... 1 month back I was on event, she stood few feet from me, she was looking at me for a 1 h, at one point we were back to back cuz she was trying to get close.... Do I try again and add her on fb, send a text asking to meet up or did I do right choice? I think she might be just looking for attention... Idk, Im very lost and kinda sad cuz I thought that she liked me and that I could make friendship / relationship out of shared looks.
@MrBizjak
Hey,thank you for sharing your situation!I can't give you advice,but I can offer some observations & reflections on what you've shared.
It sounds like you've been navigating a complex social interaction with this individual & you're seeking clarity on how to proceed.I can see that you've made efforts to initiate contact & express your interest & you've been paying attention to her behavior & body language.It's understandable that you're feeling uncertain about her intentions and your next steps.To better understand the situation,you may want to consider reflecting on the dynamics at play.What might be driving her behavior & what are your own goals & expectations in this interaction?Reflecting on these questions might help you gain a deeper understanding of the situation & your own feelings. Remember that it's okay to take your time and prioritize your own emotional well-being.
Hi I'm new here as well, @MrBizjak I'm not sure she likes you tbh maybe she wants attention or for you to make the moves because she can't herself. She could be shy as well..
I tbh I think you guys are in an awkward relationship for both of you maybe that's why your unsure, your trying to make the first moves but she is uncomplyent. Just keeping trying maybe after a few weeks try to just initiate small talk or ask about her favorite hobbies. Maybe something will turn around for you
I hope this helps!
P.S- Btw if you can, please up vote my post here (Newbies) thank you!
