Feeling overwhelmed and lonely
Hi everyone
I am going through a really tough time right now and I feel like I don’t have anyone close enough to share my feelings with. So I’m here hoping to find some understanding and support.
My beloved dog who means the world to me, has been diagnosed with stage 4 chronic kidney disease. The doctors have told me that he likely has only a few months left. Watching him in pain breaks my heart, and the thought of losing him feels unbearable. I love him so much and can’t imagine life without him.
On top of this, I’m struggling academically. I feel like I’m not meeting expectations, and I fear that I’m letting my parents down. They’ve always supported me, and the thought of disappointing them adds to the weight I’m already carrying. I often feel incredibly lonely. I don’t have friends I feel comfortable sharing this with, and I don’t want to burden my parents with everything I’m feeling. I’ve been holding it all in and it’s becoming too much.
If anyone has been through something similar or has advice on how to cope, I would really appreciate hearing from you. I’m just looking for a little connection and understanding during this hard time.
Thank you for reading
@Aryan2104
Hi Aryan,
I'm sending you a big virtual hug right now. The pain and pressure you're feeling must be incredibly overwhelming, and I just want you to know that you're not alone in this. Losing a beloved pet is one of the hardest things to go through, and the heartache of watching them suffer is unbearable. I can feel the weight of the situation, knowing that your dog means so much to you, and I truly understand how hard it is to face that kind of loss.
I would suggest that, as hard as it may be, you try to cherish every moment you have left with him. Spend quality time together... give him extra belly rubs, take him for walks, or just lie down next to him. Let him feel your love and comfort. It's the best gift you can give each other right now.
As for the academic struggles, I can empathize with that too. It’s so much to carry, especially when you feel like you’re letting people down. But please know that it’s okay to not be okay sometimes. You're doing the best you can, and that's enough. Your worth isn’t defined by grades or expectations... it's defined by your heart, your efforts, and the love you give to those around you.
I hope you can give yourself permission to take a step back and just breathe. It’s okay to not have everything figured out, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Please reach out whenever you need someone to talk to or if you just need a little extra support. You don’t have to go through this alone.
Take care of yourself, and know that I’m thinking of you and your dog during this tough time. You’re stronger than you think Aryan. You are so strong.
Hi @LunaSeraphic
Thank you so much for your kind words and support—they mean so much to me during this difficult time. My dog passed away yesterday, and it's been incredibly hard to process. There's a huge emptiness in my heart, and I’m still struggling to come to terms with it all.
At the same time, there’s a small sense of relief knowing that he’s no longer in pain and that he’s finally at peace. It was heartbreaking to see him suffer, and I’m holding onto the comfort that he’s free from all of that now.
Your message and understanding have been a source of comfort during this tough time. Thank you for being there for me.
@Aryan2104
Dear Aryan,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I feel your pain from here, and I just want you to know that we’re here for you. I’m here for you. The emptiness is a feeling which will subside in a while, even if it seems like it’ll stay for a long time.
My heart goes out to you ❤️ Take care Aryan. Sending you a hug. I’m here for you.
