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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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sonamurdyan January 10th, 2022

sonamurdyan January 10th, 2022

I pledge to treat individuals with respect and care and to keep all conversations private

sonamurdyan January 10th, 2022

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

sonamurdyan January 10th, 2022

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

fancifulStrawberry2243 January 11th, 2022

I, fancifulstrawberry2243 pledge to always be mindful of others and their journey. I know my journey will most often not look like other ones.

I pledge to treat my fellow members with open-mindedness, and empathy.

I understand as a community we are here to not give advice but rather provide an outlet for active listening.

I pledge to listen, do my very best to empathize, and always sympathize with the struggles of other, as well as encourage, uplift, and celebrate with them.

I pledge to choose my words carefully, to never assume the negative, and to give others space to learn, understand, and process, on their own time, in their own way.

fancifulStrawberry2243 January 11th, 2022

I, Fancifulstrawberry2243, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns faced during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: fancifulstrawberry2243
Date: 01/10/22

JorriM January 14th, 2022

I, FroFroggy 🐸❤️, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.


Signed: FroFoggy 🐸❤️

Date: Jan. 14, 2022

RainbowUnicorn1266 January 14th, 2022

@Laura

I Rainbow Unicorn, Pledge to my fellow community member to respect the community guidelines that are set before me on this website and that are followed by my fellow community members.

I am trust and uphold rules as they are set for our own safety and to make this a place where everyone can trust that personal information even if discussed with a handful of people still remains personal.

:) :) :) <3 <3 <3

Signed: // Rainbow Unicorn //

Shay44444 January 14th, 2022

I, Shay44444, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure it's compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgemental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behaviour in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //Shay44444

royalGrapes January 16th, 2022

I, RoyalGrapes, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure it’s compliance during my stay at 7Cups.


i will treat my members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non/judgemental


i will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.


I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek help.


I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.


I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.


j will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning With them to grow as a community together.


I will take ownership of my own behaviour in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.


I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.


signed: Royal Grapes

date: 16.01.22