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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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MammuthusPrimigenius January 10th, 2020

Talking in group chat helps Ellie and me when we are not able to find a listener. Sometimes hearing other people talk about their struggles helps me to get a new and better perspective on my challenges, and I hope I do the same for them. I try very hard never to dismiss someone else's struggles and realize that we all need each other's support.

kingofblackcobras16 January 10th, 2020

@Laura I take an oath to follow its guidelines.

graceeee January 10th, 2020

I agree to the oath!

Hazalbean January 10th, 2020

@Laura I promise to follow the guidelines of 7 cups and to help in any way possible.

SimplyMe357 January 10th, 2020

@Laura

Signed: //SimplyMe357//

Date: 1/9/20

January 10th, 2020

@Laura

I will go according to the rules!! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‹

AdorableGuineaPig January 10th, 2020

I take my oath

KassBear January 10th, 2020

@Laura I pledge to work hard to try and get better, I pledge to be polite and accepting of everyone else's trials and will remember that we all have our own struggles, and we're all just trying to find support, and get better.

MotivationalSong January 10th, 2020

@Laura I, MotivationalSong, pledge to follow the rules and guidelines and uphold the values of respect and positivity when participating in the group chats.

Girl1980 January 10th, 2020

@Laura

I promise to follow the 7cups community guidelines and values.

Signed: //Girl1980//

Date: 1/9/2020