considering talking to a adult
I dated this guy for 4 months, and in the first month he begged me for pictures and he would say if I don't send then I don't love him so I sent him them but that wasn't even the worst part he would touch me down there in public places even if i pushed his hand away he still would try, we had a-lot of classes together and he would always make me sit next to him and he would touch me and grab my hand it put it on his thing. When ever we would hang out at one of our houses he would make me give him head because I "owed" him. On our 2nd or 3rd month we had s*x and I did consent to this because he wouldn't shut up about it and he would make me feel bad, he would guilt trip me into doing it with him constantly.There are many other things that happend to.... I always felt uncomfortable around him but I pushed it away and I tried my best to be happy......now its been a month since I broke up with him and I constantly have flashbacks and can feel his hands on my body, when ever I see him it hurts, Im at a lost and I feel like its my fault.
@quietCurrent1234 it is not your fault...
I agree you should speak to an adult-- a school counsellor for instance as it sounds like this experience left a bad feeling.
It is good to learn about boundaries, self respect and how you do not owe any boy anything. Unfortunately there are people who will take advantage of others who do not speak up for themselves.
Take care and be kind to yourself
Yes tell an adult. A coach, school counselor, principal, pastor, youth pastor. Anyone.
That is F-ing sick. Blackmail him, make him feel what you felt, send a letter to the principal of your school. When you see him mark him off don’t ever look at his face, put an X on it. Extinguish his existence. If you want to go more deep make a court case. Because that is not okay hun.