TW Rape
I was raped 11 months ago and I still dont know whether to report my abuser or not. What should I do ?
@millipede03 report him.
I already forgve him tho I feel like it would be pointless and we dont have any physical evidence/enough evidence
I gives you alot of credit, it took me years to finally accept it and no way I would forgive that easily. I forgive myself for the situation but not the person . Hard to explain I forgave the situation but not the person action.
Does that person really deserve forgiveness?
I'm 31 now and I still have trauma from my assault when I was 5.
@millipede03 I doubt that you forgave something so traumatic, and even so, report him to prevent this fr happening again with someone else, otherwise this horrible act will be associated with no consequences, and that's not how it should be.
I did tho idk why I feel like I shouldn't have
I feel like the only way to move on is to just accept what happened
@millipede03 you did the right thing on report him. I can't imagine what you went through, you are very strong and if you ever need to talk, about anything, feel free to reach me.
Take care.
Hi there,
I was assaulted when I was 5 years old. I was 14 years old when I broke down and told my brothers and sisters. For the longest time I felt guilty that it would ruin my family if I told anyone who the person was. I wish I told someone when I was younger. I wish he got locked up or punished in some way. Me now at 31, I wish I did something to prevent others from harm.
I think you should tell/report him. Maybe not for yourself but you can protect other girls/women from this type of trauma, no one deserves to be hurt like this.
report him, you can protect other girls and women from the same situation
your right. But it was a year ago and I dont remember evry exact detail tho. And we dont have any physical evidence either. I'm also worried if I do report him nobody will believe me . I dont know if its too late or not.
