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Encouragement for sexually assaulted victims ( possible trigger)

TallApple138 August 9th, 2016

This thread is for all the sexually abused victims. Anyone who has been sexualy abused, assulted or raped. I really don't mean for this to upset or trigger anyone. I hope it can encourage you to keep fighting.

I would just like to say that I admire the courage and strength it took for all of you to get up after such a terrible event and face the world again.

I can only imagine how difficult it must be. I can only imagine the hate and anger you must feel towards that person ( or anyone similar). ♡ I can only imagine the trust issues you must have ( especially if it was someone who were supose to protect you)

This thread is to somehow encourage you, somehow show you that people do care.You didn't deserve for this to happen, and no matter what it's not your fault. You shouldn't feel ashamed or embarrassed because you didn't do anything wrong. no matter what anyone says or how they make you feel, it's not your fault. You didn't deserve this ♥♡

I want to remind you that not all people are the same, ♡and even though those people hurt you, there are people who want to help.

♡ this thread is also to encourage you to always get back up, don't let that beast win. Don't lie down. Don't let them steal your smile, they don't deserve it. They aren't worth your happiness.

You are awesome.♥ This doesn't change the fact that you are a wonderful human being. A loved person. ♡ you are a star for getting back up★ and you deserve to shine.

♡ Remember GOD LOVES YOU ♡

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BrightRedFlower2322 August 9th, 2016

@TallApple138

ill be the first to post I am not afraid anymore what's done is done over accepted it and moved on I was beaten strangled treated like a sex slave and a house slave for almost 3 years I was raped a month after I gave birth he damaged my ribs and my wrist pushed me against the wall made my back weaker I struggled every day till one day I said F it F it to him F it why cry over a woman basher he doesn't care he isn't crying he isn't hurting he's living life hanging out with mates sitting on his backside playing games he tore my open down stairs after I've giving birth a month then got raped its been almost 2 years since I left the pig I didn't heal properly when I was raped I guess it was because he didn't want me to have another MAN well guess what I do its been almost 2 years with my new man my new man taught me how to stand up to my ex and I did it felt bloody fantastic I felt so alive so good so stand up to my ex and say NO BACK OFF NOW that felt amazing my new man now my fiancée he's teaching me how to show no mercy with my ex not even a leg for him to stand on once I'm finished my ex past mistake will be sacred to even try anything anymore I'm a strong person I'm still that loving caring supportive woman just because my ex treated me like that he didn't break me down to my inner core just my outter layer he done so much to me and my daughter I will never stop being myself I have a fantastic personality he's pissed my ex cause my daughter and I are happy and he knows it but doesn't like it well guess what D**K you can't do nothing about it everyone has strength and can stand there ground if they really want to and try to we are still who we are doesn't matter what we all have gone through or been through they will not break our true personality's always be your self who you are who you want to be never turn out like them you have a choice be your self or someone you don't want to turn into always be Who you are no one else

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TallApple138 OP August 9th, 2016

Hey @BrightRedFlower2322

I am so happy that you had the courage to stand up against your ex ♥ and it made me smile to read your post. I am glad you found someone better and that you and your daughter can have a happy life now.

I am glad you didn't allow him to steal your smile or change who you are. You should always stay kind and be you.

You are awesome for posting this. ♡ thank you. I am sure It will inspire a lot of other people who went through the same or something similar

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BrightRedFlower2322 August 9th, 2016

@TallApple138

Thank you so much I still got a lot on my chest and mind that I struggle with and trying to exercise is hard at times cause of my ribs but I try not to let that get in my way or bother me to much its very painful I still need xrays done just haven't had time lately no matter what anyone goes through you'll always be your self in the end it felt great being myself again everyone has strength inside of them they just have to let it out and find it it dose help I'm glad to have shared a bit of my past there's loads more but it would have turned out to be a book instead of a post thanks I'm glad you got inspired by it and I hope others will too :) thank you

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TallApple138 OP August 9th, 2016

Your strength is wonderful.

Please feel free to share as much as you wish @BrightRedFlower2322

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BrightRedFlower2322 August 9th, 2016

@TallApple138 thank you so much it means a lot thanks :) angel

Have a lovely day/night hope your life and world is filled with people you love and bright colourful surrounding's that make you happy and smile :) x

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Rossetto August 9th, 2016

My experience wasn't as bad as some others here. It was my first job... the owner would pin me to a wall, attempt to choke me, slap me, and degrade me. Eventually I quit because the money wasn't worth it. Most of my trust issues with men come from this situation. I've moved on and it made me a better person because of it.