My mom was trapped and I enjoyed watching it
At the age of 5 I watched my mom being trapped and chased around her car by a babysitter's husband because she was trying to kidnap my brother and I from the babysitter's house during her divorce to my dad. I enjoyed waving to the babysitter's husband as he stood against his front door blocking it on my mom. I feel like the babysitter's husband is my hero and role model
@creativeStrings1531
Hi, that makes sense that you'd feel that way based on the situation you were in. Your mom was trying to kidnap you and your brother, but the babysitter's husband helped protect you and keep you safe by getting in the way of what your mom was trying to do. (I could understand if maybe there were also a bit of conflict about getting some peace or relief from a situation that was hurting your mom.)
I talk to my therapist about this and I have also told her that I feel like the babysitter's husband is my hero and role model
I talk with my therapist and tell her that I feel like I will trap my mom someday just like the babysitter's husband did to my mom
Holidays are hard cause I feel like if my mom was to show up unannounced during a holiday that I would enjoy trapping her
Feel if my mom were to show up unannounced I would be ready to trap her
Experience don’t make you worse they only teaches what you need to know. Life can never be easy if second chance can’t be given because one thing is sure that I know human we will always make mistakes.
