Last 12 months
I have been living a life of sexual discrimination. I work in a highly female profession and I am a feminist. I however, am male.
I have been falsely accused and am suffering a lot. A woman has run around spreading a falsehood about me to others and it has snowballed. The company refuses to see what she is doing. I am guilty because I am male and she is the victim because she is female.
Truth is highly important to me lies about me will destroy my retirement, my career, and have pushed me to attempt suicide (yes I am in therapy)cPTSD
now I am in depositions because of suit with the business. It is eating me up.
I just want to go back to work, this is destroying me piece by piece.
@MataWindstorm
I am so sorry that this woman has placed you in this situation. I know this has to be so hard and even unfair. You have every right to be upset, and I only hope that what she is trying to do will be thrown out,, and your job will not be affected by this. I know it is hard for you right now, but please hang in there. Have you an attorney that you are working with? because these types of cases can get awfully sticky. We are here to support you as you work through this.❤️
@WorkingitThrough2 thank you very much
@MataWindstorm
Hello, I just wanted to check back in on you❤️. Have you heard any more about your situation?
We are still here with you so reach out at any time you feel like talking, no pressure😊,
@WorkingitThrough2 No updates yet. They expect that it will take them 30-60 days to figure this out.
@WorkingitThrough2 I got a recommendation for negotiation from the lawyer today which means that even though all the evidence is there to show the sexual discrimination, no one is listening.
@MataWindstorm
This is awful; This is so unfair. Why have to negotiate when you are not the one telling lies? Even the legal system sucks. I have had my share of deadbeat attorneys who just took my money. It is so sad what we are coming to these days. I am sorry. Don't give up, Truth has a way of surfacing.
@MataWindstorm
Some women may make fun of you and say that you're overexageratting, but you are absolutely right that sexual discrimination exists against men, and you were evidently a victim of this. I'm so sorry that a woman has falsely accused you; women like that who lie about their male colleagues are the reason why women who have actually been hurt are not believed. The woman who has done that to you deserves to be punished for defamation and harm; false accusations can jeopardize people's whole lives. No wonder you are in such stress and, sad to hear, felt there was no other way that you have felt you should kick the bucket.
You deserve to live and be happy and have a smooth career and retirement; I hope that you're able to be cleared appropriately of these false accusations. Truth should not only be highly important to you, but the people around you, and they should be able to see your innocence. I hope that you are able to receive justice, compensation, and support through the awful garbage this woman has put you through. It makes sense that you feel tired and that everything that is happening is eating you up, but I hope things will get better. I'm rooting for you, and so are the other people here, and hopefully you have people supporting you and who believe you and know that you are innocent.
Today is my deposition. I am nervous/anxious beyond compare. They love to twist things.
@MataWindstorm well, I lost. Truth means nothing. Being male is all I needed to be guilty.
@MataWindstorm
I am so sorry that you have been subjected to such an injustice. You know what happened to you? My husband and I needed to seek legal counsel on a matter, and the Attorney said to us: "Trueth rarely comes into court, It is the Lawyer that can lie the best.", My reply to him was so this is the justice system that is supposed to protect us, and we are supposed to be innocent until proven guilty according to the law but you all are making it a best lier match. What are we Americans coming to😠
I am so sorry. Maybe request another hearing for what that might be worth.