Some gr**mer in my chat.
Dunno if it's allowed here, but i want to share smth.
I'm 13, for a bit of context.
When i very quickly found a listener, he instantly began to ask me some personal questions.
Last question from him before i reported and blocked.
I told him that I'm 13. Even tho i knew it was personal question. Just got intrigued by what he'll ask me.
I really wanted to joke first like "My *** are covered with caca and weeweez 💋" but yk, curiosity got the better of me.
It slightly traumatized me, not ready to tell if I'm gonna trust THESE kind of men* again. Also like.. Hello??? I'm a child???
*i know that not all men are like that. I talk about specific "breed" of them.
Edited Sept 2, 2023
I don't come across it as much on here as on other platforms, but that happend to me once. He asked, do u like to be submissive. 😤😡😡
Instantly I reported him. Didn't even answer.
Tip: if someone makes u uncomfortable in any way with their question, remember u don't have to talk to them, u don't. I'm sure there's other people out there that will actually HELP you.
Stay safe, sorry to hear that happened to you..it's such a shame he did that.
@chubbymainecoonkittens
Sorry that happened, blocking was the right thing. You can also take screenshots and use the support link to do a report that way with the extra proof. https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us
If you browse listeners and look for ones who have good reviews and have been around for a while or the verified listeners it cuts down on the likelihood you get a listener like that.
@chubbymainecoonkittens I'm so sorry this happened, you deserve to feel safe when speaking with a listener and to have your boundaries respected. That listener was not following 7 Cups guidelines, and you did the right thing by reporting and blocking him. Like you said, it was especially inappropriate behavior on his part given that you are a minor. Like others have said, definitely take screenshots anytime someone is being inappropriate, and you can always find a listener by looking at their ratings and Verified Listener status. Also, make sure to take care of yourself after a traumatizing incident! Grab a blanket, listen to some music, watch something, etc, to wind down. You have every right to feel uncomfortable with what happened, and to take the steps you need to take to feel better about it. Lots of love and support :))