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I don't know if I have trauma

swoossh December 9th, 2023

Hi, so basically when I was a kid my dad had extreme anger issues and yelled very frequently. I remember once he made a joke and we all laughed and then I made a joke but then he just got up and yelled at me.

Whenever someone sighs or exhales loudly I instinctively take a step back. And whenever someone puts a plate or some dish down and it's loud I immediately start crying and get an overwhelming feeling that I need to hide.


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Tinywhisper11 December 9th, 2023

@swoossh I'm pretty sure that classes as trauma. There are many different situations that can cause trauma. Have you talked about this to a health professional or doctor? Maybe they can help you to start understanding and coping with it. Being scared and jumpy is not a very nice thing to deal with 😥 I'm sorry your struggling with all this, gives you a giant festive tiny hug ❤❤ I hope youll be ok ❤❤

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swoossh OP December 9th, 2023

Thank you


I have not talked to a professional about this. I am currently in the search for one though

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WorkingitThrough2 December 9th, 2023

@swoossh

7cups offers Therapy for a fee, and Maybe you could talk to your family about starting❤️

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swoossh OP December 9th, 2023

I am actually looking into free resources in my country, it's just difficult due to the hierarchy in the medical system but thanks for letting me know

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starryCandy6123 December 9th, 2023

I would say that, is related to the trauma, that yiur dad has left you with, 7 cups have professional trained councillors for a fee, but we also have many trained, listeners for free. Check out our list

Tinywhisper11 December 10th, 2023

@swoossh good luck ❤ and merry Christmas ❤