Calling all Cluster B/Bi Polar/Borderline survivors!
IM reaching out to find anyone who has been through a relationship with someone who they believe is unkownly suffering from the types of people who have caused major emotional damage 2 there once partners and how to handle/survive/grow from the aftermath of such traumatic experiences. I am Desperate to find a support group to help me through one of the most struggling times in my life and wish to find like-minded individuals who can share their experience as well as they're breakthroughs during a painful transition back to a reality from the nightmare.
Thankyou to anyone who comments, an know i am more than willing to share more of my own experience if anyone can relate.
@Sonofjah461
Hello there,
@Sonofjah461
I am so sorry what you are experiencing. I am unsure how to respond to your question, but I would like you to know that here at 7cups, we have a Forum that deals with Relationships. This might be a great fit for you with people going through the same or like relationships. I will find a link to that Community and post it here.
HTTP:/7cups.com/Forum/Relationships
I hope that you are able to get the support and answers you are looking for❤️
Thankyou! Much appreicated!
@Sonofjah461
You are more than welcome❤️
I'm bipolar myself, and I've dated other bipolar people, along with other personality disorders, it's an awful thing to go through, and if you'd like to talk and we could share our experiences, maybe we'll both feel better from it.
@Deadtiredperson175
Thanlyou for your reply! Means alot. Its been very challenging for ne over the last 7 months since I seperated from the person who I believe had some serious issues. Its taken a huge toll on me, mentally, phyically even spiritually. IVE NEVER EXPERIENCED LOSS LIKE THIS OR HURT FROM ANYONE B4 IN THIS MAGNITUDE! I want to be clear about not living like this, I dont wana be a victim or diplay victim mentality nor do I wana play the blame game because ive def learned things about myself through this. I Simply cannot fathom the change in this person who I swear was My Person 😢 everything around me has been effected and i feel like ive exhausted every avenue to help me- therapy, medications, etc. This is the only platform ive found to share and hopefully learn from because im outta options here. I have a Son I wana see grow old. I have family and friends that care so much an dont know how to help. Im lost. Any help would be greatly appreicated.
This is gonna sound stupidly cliche, but find something to focus, fixate, on, and just know, some times awful things happen, people change, and don't let that sour how you interact with other people. Or if you can't keep your mind off it, think about it like this, that person, with the way they're changed all of a sudden, it's disorienting, confusing. They might think they're going crazy, not truly understanding what's happening or why they're acting like that. It's an isolating and horrifying feeling. They probably feel like they don't know themselves, like they've become a stranger to themselves. It's a sad thing to think about, but it does help. And I hope this helps you. I hope you see your son grow old and be happy.
Thankyou for your response. It is helpful 2 think in the 2 mindsets you presented. Its so hard to focus on anything, but im trying. As to thinking about her suffering, I cant help but doubt she is. I feel like she doesnt evem know the extent the damage she leaves on her wake. Just based on the poor guy b4 me and all the things shes done 2 someone b4 me, I got out b4 it could have been worse. I dodged a bullet, however I still feel like I "took the bullet."
Thankyou. Your words do help. Please take comfort it that. 🙏