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Parents are abusive

chessman6500 April 5th, 2021

Luckily I don’t have contact with my dad, but dealing with an abusive mom during covid is very difficult. She has called me practically every name in the book, has said I’m the narcissist, she stalks me, controls me and kicks me when I’m down. She’s also agoraphobic and doesn’t go anywhere. The world has become the loneliest it’s ever been in my opinion due to the pandemic, and it feels very dystopian. With no real hope or guarantees things will change it makes me feel sad. It makes me wish I had grown up in the past. I am tired of my moms abuse. She also has diabetes and llamas her abuse on it, and she financially comtrols me.

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chessman6500 OP April 5th, 2021

Blames* controls*

braveChestnut2812 April 5th, 2021

❤ hang in there chess, you are not alone.

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chessman6500 OP April 5th, 2021

Thanks for your support! I was thinking earlier today had I grown up in the 90s, maybe things would have been better.

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braveChestnut2812 April 5th, 2021

Maybe, but hard times don't last forever. Every generation had good and bad times I guess. Sending you strength to help you through the hard days.

Hawkass April 14th, 2021

@chessman6500

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Hawkass April 14th, 2021

@Hawkass I get you dood. I'll be 23 in a month and I'm still living under a roof with an emotional and physical abusive Bmother. I also have feck all control of my own money sometimes. They like to to do that thing where they borrow some and never pay you back xD
But know this, stay strong. You've made it so far already and you'll make it even further and beyond. Don't let people like this knock you down and keep you there. You're much much stronger and smarter.

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Hawkass April 14th, 2021

@chessman6500

Soumya11 April 18th, 2021

Hey there! I just wish that this pain ends soon, may you one day be free and not feel this. I know that the pandemic has made things unbearable but please don't give up. May god give you the strength, there will be light. From someone who is going through the same thing, my dad's emotionally abusive.

I completely understand I have a narcissistic mother too who plays the victim. I was also abused by her and my dad emotionally and physically. People like that don’t change we’ve been to therapy and never tries to be better. I hope u get out soon 💛