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chessman6500
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Parents are abusive
Trauma Support / by chessman6500
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 May 8th, 2021
...See more Luckily I don’t have contact with my dad, but dealing with an abusive mom during covid is very difficult. She has called me practically every name in the book, has said I’m the narcissist, she stalks me, controls me and kicks me when I’m down. She’s also agoraphobic and doesn’t go anywhere. The world has become the loneliest it’s ever been in my opinion due to the pandemic, and it feels very dystopian. With no real hope or guarantees things will change it makes me feel sad. It makes me wish I had grown up in the past. I am tired of my moms abuse. She also has diabetes and llamas her abuse on it, and she financially comtrols me.
feeling stressed
Anxiety Support / by chessman6500
Last post
 October 15th, 2020
...See more I have lately been feeling quite stressed and exhausted. I suspect my mom is a Narcissist. I am not sure she is one as I am not a psychotherapist, but she has acted weird for years. I will explain to you all what she does. She frequently yells at me for every mistake that I make, even minor ones, she's negative all the time and never has any positive thoughts, she always complains she's not feeling well (which may be legitimate but she does it every day), she never really gets excited if something good happens to me, she controls me somewhat, she is overworrying about coronavirus to the point where I am mentally and physically exhausted from hearing about it, she is afraid of practically everything, and she has given me false apologies that are meaningless, I can see right through her. She talks very badly about other people who disagree with her and lately she's started complaining that people don't wear masks. I do notice she has some empathetic traits and moments where she does act completely normal, particularly around others. I already acknowledge I cannot fix her and this is who she is, but I am looking for an exit out of this situation while also remaining in contact with my mom despite her flaws. I still love her in spite of all of that but I am at the brink of exhaustion and instanity.
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