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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check In - Tuesday the 23rd of May 2018

User Profile: SoftForestHSP77
SoftForestHSP77 May 22nd, 2018

Good morning Trauma Family,

I'd like for us to read a few excerpts from Matthew Tull, PhD. He talks about impulsive behavior and risky behavior. He explains How people with PTSD can have impulsive behaviour.

I know this can be a secretive thing that

you hate that you do. It's okay. We are here to support each other. Especially for the hard stuff.

PTSD and impulsive and risky behaviors.

Specifically, given evidence that difficulties in emotion regulation and impulsivity are elevated among individuals with PTSD and associated with greater risk-taking behaviors, these two constructs are proposed as potential mechanisms that may account for the PTSD-impulsive and risky behavior connection.

Many people with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) struggle with a variety of impulsive behaviors. When this happens often or seriously disrupts everyday life, impulse control disorders are a likely cause.

Typically the impulsive action results from release of stress that has built to the point where the person can no longer resist it. The immediate sense of relief is only short-term, however. Feelings such as guilt or shame may follow, and repeated impulsive acts can lead to serious problems.

What is an impulsive behavior?

Impulsive behaviors are those that occur quickly without control, planning or consideration of the consequences of that behavior. Impulsive behaviors tend to be connected with immediate positive consequences (for example, relief from emotional pain). However, in the long-term, there may be a number of negative consequences, such as greater emotional distress or regret.

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User Profile: Behindhazeleyes
Behindhazeleyes May 22nd, 2018

I like one that says "people start to heal when they feel heard!"

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User Profile: SoftForestHSP77
SoftForestHSP77 OP May 22nd, 2018

@Behindhazeleyes that's a great way to look at things:))

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May 22nd, 2018

why do they alsways have to remind me i'm nothing sad sorry i don't know where to write so i wrote it here

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May 24th, 2018

i tried

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User Profile: BeeLeigh
BeeLeigh May 23rd, 2018

I feel like crap today. Which I guess is just how I feel now. It's a better crap than the last few days, but crap nonetheless. My therapist texted me right as I pulled into work today to tell me she had to cancel all her sessions for the day because of a family emergency. I can't really be upset at her reasoning, but it's really bad timing for me. I really needed her today. I have a lot going on this weekend, and I don't think I can handle it all if I don't get in to see her beforehand. So much happened in such a short period of time this past weekend, and I really needed to see her today to try and deal with at least part of it. My friend still isn't talking to me. I'm trying so hard not to retreat into my own little bubble, but the current circumstances are making that quite difficult. I still don't understand what made my friend so mad at me, and that makes me want to just not talk to anyone cuz I don't want to say the wrong thing and upset anyone else. I can't lose anyone else. I feel so fragile as it is right now. If I lose someone else, that would just shatter me.

User Profile: Moonberrycat
Moonberrycat May 23rd, 2018

today's just...ugh. not good. keep backspacing everything i write because everything is pointless kind of day, i guess.

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User Profile: rozie
rozie May 23rd, 2018

@Moonberrycat

Oh sorry to hear that you're having a day like this.. just one of those kinda days.Wondering if somehow you could distract yourself with something you enjoy.. colouring in for instance. Just know that we are here with you. x

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User Profile: seastargalaxies
seastargalaxies May 23rd, 2018

Today is just super impulsive and bad... I can't manage to deescalate...

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User Profile: rozie
rozie May 23rd, 2018

@seastargalaxies

Oh i know its tough when it gets like this and hard to stop.. to desescalate as you say. I'm wondering what has helped you before.. maybe have a pause and give yourself a chance to regroup.Even just slowing your breath can help to slow your mind. Remember we're here with you in support and there are listeners you can chat with 1-1. Thinking of you. x

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User Profile: seastargalaxies
seastargalaxies May 27th, 2018

@rozie Thank you. Recently, I've been working on art.

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