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Trauma Support Check-in: July 19 - July 23

fairyava July 19th, 2021

Hello hello lovely Trauma Support community! I hope everyone's having a spectacular Monday and is ready to take on a new week. Gosh, more than halfway through July already?! This year has been flying by!

Let's all take a 5 second inhale, and a 5 second exhale. Inhale positivity, exhale negativity ☀️

chibird — I'm a big sucker for trying to hold too much on my...
Check-in questions:
1. How are you doing?
2. What has been going well for you? What has been challenging?
3. What is on your "plate" this week?
4. If you could have dinner with anyone from the past, who would you choose and why?


Have a wonderful week everyone!

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greenYard2803 August 7th, 2021

@fairyava

. How are you doing?
The week has just ended. Life is going by too quickly.
2. What has been going well for you? What has been challenging?
My mind and past experiences is my own enemy.
3. What is on your "plate" this week?
Trying to work on this list that I made.
4. If you could have dinner with anyone from the past, who would you choose and why?
Robin Williams. He is a real person if that makes any sense.

thisllpass August 8th, 2021

tw: misogyny, violence
1. I'm doing okayish!
2. Work going well. Challenge: Frustrated by two of the younger people in my continuing ed class. Interested to know if anyone has opinions on this. I raised the question of how to depict malice (and its causes) in fiction (the character in question is an incel who eventually shoots up a building; a classmate took issue with the lack of an inciting incident other than repeated rejection except by "low status" prospects). Obviously, not everyone who gets rejected or bullied turns to violence. They're usually radicalized by an online group. For the same reason, they're usually fairly young. But the character in this instance was 40. To me, it was appropriate to ask: what if the character just has ASPD? Is that a copout? It exists. To which other students in the group either said "yes, it is a copout" or conflated ASPD with other mental illnesses and accused me of binary thinking. What I would like to know is this: were these 25 year olds being obtuse, or do I need to reexamine my unconscious biases towards the violently insane? Thank you for any honest feedback! It is much appreciated. :)

August 14th, 2021

@fairyava
July 19 - 23
Today: August 14

Things don't matter, people don't matter, people don't care, change goes on, but, does it? This is not meant at anyone specific!!!!!!!!!!

depressedpotatoe13 August 16th, 2021

1- ım been durıng bad but tryıng to be okay

2- nothing has been doing well for me everythıng just seems so bad

3- on my plate there ıs classes ı need to pass

4- ı would choose edıth pıaf because her voıce makes me feel better and ınspıres me


1 reply
HereToHelp135 August 21st, 2021

@depressedpotatoe13

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through so much. If you need any support, know that we are here for you :)

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August 17th, 2021

@fairyava

everything now is all getting to be called trauma.....has been growing and growing.....even people wanting attention by using word lots........just have to over look so much

GoodTrouble19 August 25th, 2021
1. How are you doing? I am doing well
2. What has been going well for you? What has been challenging? Me time family
3. What is on your "plate" this week? Dentist apt. volunteering
4. If you could have dinner with anyone from the past, who would you choose and why? My Opa, because I love and miss him
betterchoices August 30th, 2021

I loved that little bunny graphic! Omg. I often think about things I have to do as looong lists and they get daunting... This is a great way to adjust my perspective.

1. How are you doing?
I'm well! It's been a long while since I've been on 7cups, but I needed to come back for a while.

2. What has been going well for you? What has been challenging?
Going well: I've been with my family, and my birthday is next week! I'm happy about it. I'm finally recovering from a hard couple of months.
Challenges: Well, I've had a hard couple of months. I am also wrestling with a job I need to complete that is taking a lot of mental energy I don't ever feel like I have...

3. What is on your "plate" this week?
Oh, it sure feels like a lot! Laundry, registering my car (getting a subsequent smog), birthday plans for a friend, birthday plans for MYSELF, a big week at work, cleaning the house, and other things... But I'll try to portion out my platefuls one day at a time!

4. If you could have dinner with anyone from the past, who would you choose and why?
If I could have a translator or somehow speak Italian, Leonardo da Vinci. I just don't know if he'd be very talkative, haha.

August 30th, 2021

. @fairyava
Hello, hope you are well? Thanks for the check-insmiley
1. How are you doing? I am doing pretty good today
2. What has been going well for you? What has been challenging? I made Room Supporter ut was wanting to become Project Agent. I have to get more training and become Verified.
3. What is on your "plate" this week? Training this week, Dog to the Vet, and Pt
4. If you could have dinner with anyone from the past, who would you choose and why? Maybe my birth father, I never met him and I think it would be a real pleasure to dine with him, he is deceasted