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How to not miss someone

User Profile: Ladyybugg2019
Ladyybugg2019 September 13th, 2021

I really miss someone I used to love and it is getting hard for me to keep up and it is like there is somewhere I wanna be and I am not there, There is something I want to happen and it is not happening it is like a never ending desire I am not over him and missing him I have tried talking to a lot of listeners and that didn't help , I am just....really hurt
What do I do??😣😥😥😫

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul September 13th, 2021

@Ladyybugg2019 I wish I knew all the right words to say. Its hard when we really care for someone but for maybe alot of reasons we can't be a part of their life any more. I'm sorry you're hurting so. It does get better with time but there's no limit on how long that time might be. There will be good days when maybe they didn't pop into your thoughts but there will also be days when they're all you think about. Be patient with yourself - let yourself grieve. I'm finding the harder I fight the grief the harder it is to let go
I'm sorry - I don't have anything better to offer you
Be gentle with yourself and your thoughts

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User Profile: Ladyybugg2019
Ladyybugg2019 OP September 14th, 2021

@mytwistedsoul
Yeah thank you I am trying and I am just trying

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul September 14th, 2021

@Ladyybugg2019 Its ok to not be ok with it. I have found it helps to talk about it. I know you've said you've talked to listeners about it but it's not a once and done thing. Every time you talk about it it's like a pressure release and it does help - well - it's helped me. It's better to let it out rather then to hold it all inside. A good listener will understand that you need to talk about it more then once or even a dozen times. I know for me it was really hard to understand that someone I shared so much of myself with was no longer a part of my life and I spent months beating myself up because of it. I still have bad days when it hurts but I've found that talking about it on those days really does help. You're welcome to tag me too if you'd like. I may not have many answers but I don't mind listening :)

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User Profile: Ladyybugg2019
Ladyybugg2019 OP September 15th, 2021

@mytwistedsoul

Yeah thanks you , I will try to talk about it regularly and it is right that a person who you have loved a lot once is no longer a part of ur life is really hard to let go but these things take time😉😥😥

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User Profile: Campster
Campster September 15th, 2021

The only way out is keep yourselves diverted