I'm not feeling well
I am autistic person and it my life is very difficult š.Its almost impossible to maintain eye contact and i feel very uncomfortable around people
@cake7658 aww I'm sorry sweetie. I know it's hard, I never look people in the eyes either, and I'm ok around people I know. But otherwise I get very nervous, and self aware. So it's ok your not alone ā¤ we are all here for you ā¤ gives you a giant tiny hug ā¤ perhaps a listener might be able to help you best ā¤
Thanks for your kind words tiny.
@cake7658 hugs you tightly ā¤
@cake7658 I am sorry you feel you are having challenges being around people.
I have struggled with that all my life so that is why 7 Cups is so good for me because I can relate without the anxiety.Ā
Glad to meet you. What hobbies do you have?
My hobbies are watching football and doing maths
@cake7658 I like math too. So you say football, do you mean European football that we call soccer in US. What teams do you route for?
@soulsings yes European football I cheer for man city what about you?
@cake7658 I am not in the UK so when I watch I am looking for good clean play with no injuries and lots of shots on goals by both sides.Ā
Man city has had some really good games.Ā
@cake7658
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling uncomfortable around others. It can make it very difficult to fit in. I never felt like fitting in anywhere tbh until I joined 7cups and learned that I'm not the only one feeling different. I hope you will find the same comfort and support you need here as I did.
I'm so gladĀ you took the courage to reach out!
I have a son and husband with autism. You are not alone. Itās ok. Eye contact and being around people will take time. Itās important for you to be comfortable. so sorry you are struggling. It is very brave ti reach out for support at 7cups. Glad you are here.
@cake7658Ā Ā its okay darlin. life is hard for everyone. while yours could be worse than someone else out in the world we all have our trials. whats important is to keep fighting! dont give up. dont stop yourself from improving. youve got this. learn to work with your disorder, learn to make eye contact. practice on those around you who you feel closest to! this is just one of the many trils you will have to go through in your life. remember to keep going forward. we all love you!!!!
@EmmyMarie06 Thanks for your kind words emmy. I am trying my best but sometimes i get tired of my life
@cake7658Ā Ā thats relatable. and its okay. we all get tired of our lives sometimes. we think how great it would be just to have a day off. what i tell myself all the time is a quote from a song called around forever by randall king.Ā things always go from good to bad to better
remember better is coming even though your in the bad.Ā
@EmmyMarie06 thanks for that uplifting thought.Ā