Relationship Problems
Hello everyone I’m new here and something that I really want to work on is being able to let go of my past and not put what I’ve been through onto my current relationship because I tend to do that I always think that my current boyfriend is being sneaky or could be lying to me even though he never gave me a reason etc. It sort of feels like I’m self sabotaging my current relationship… if anyone else has been through this how did you work through it because I need help
@DiamondLuvs
Hello and welcome to our subcommunity, so glad that you joined us. I'm so sorry that your past is impacting your current relationship in such a stressful way. 
Finding trust again after having had bad experiences is not always easy and it needs a lot of patience and understanding from both sides in the relationship. Have you considered to talk openly to your boyfriend what makes it so hard for you to trust again?
This is a link to our relationship support on the site where people share relationship issues https://www.7cups.com/forum/RelationshipFriendshipSupport_66/RelationshipIssuesTips_2168/
