Just lost my relationship and don’t know what to believe
I was dating someone for the past year after being single 100% for 3 1/2 years. I wanted to be mentally healed from my past 17year relationship before I started to date again and ended up falling in love with my best friend who is a complete narcissist and sociopath but also has had a lot of trauma in his life he self medicated to try to deal with his own emotions which was like being on a roller coaster for us. His dad who I was also friends with (who’s semi paralyzed) made up lies about me to his son after coming onto me and being rejected. His son chose to believe his dad. Which has left me heart broken and confused. I loved him a lot he was my best friend even with all his flaws. So now I’m stuck questioning our entire relationship and am fine one minute and heartbroken the next. It’d be nice to have someone to talk to right now
@Mykidsb4me33
You have been through a lot in the last years and I can only imagine how much it hurt you to realize that your best friend chose to take his father's side instead of sticking to you. 💙 Feeling that you're on an emotional roller coaster in a relationship is tough and I can understand that it left you confused especially after what happened with his father. Have you considered to have a 1:1 chat with a listener https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to go into more detail about your feelings? You are also very welcome to pm me 💙
I totally understand how you feel. I’m in a similar situation,That feeling of being fine this minute and being heartbroken the next. You’d be fine . We’d be fine . It’s hard but I’m trusting that we’d be fine eventually. Love and light ❤️
I was MAYBE in a relationship with my bestfriend too, he was nice, caring, know everything about me and how I act. He knows exactly what to say and what should he do whenever i'm feeling down.
But one day, he left. He left everything just like that without contacting me and when he finally did, he said sorry for giving me hope. At that moment I already know where was that going. After a year of being single, finally met someobe who understand me...before we were in a relationship...and when we started to date.. he seems...like doesn't wanna put an effort on trying to show how much he love me..I started to question myself if I'm not good enough, or if he will leave me.
