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Mykidsb4me33
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11 DAYS SINCE WE BROKE UP N NEED ADVICE
Relationship Stress / by Mykidsb4me33
Last post
 July 23rd, 2021
...See more I’ve been in a relationship for a year with a guy 10 years younger than me who became my best friend for 6 months before we started dating. Well on the 4th of July which was the anniversary of his moms death he told me his dad had told him all these lies about me when we got into a fight. A few months ago his dad hit on me and I told him I’m your friend and in love with your son and ever since I could feel his dads dislike towards me but I never told his son because I didn’t want to start trouble so when his son told me all the things his dad said which were all lies and he chose to believe his father over me We broke up. He threw up so much hurtful things in my face, called me names and even told me he wishes I’d die. The fact that he held all these lies his father told him in for so long is what gets me. I tried so hard to be good to him. I was loyal, and did any and everything for him. I was single 100% for 3 years before I started dating him just because I was really hurt from a 17 year bad relationship, and I ended up getting hurt again. I know he was a mess emotionally and mentally and I’m probably insane for missing him but I do. I even offered to pay 350$ for a lie detector just to prove his dad is lying but after the things he said to me when he was angry I don’t think we can come back from but I really do love him we haven’t spoken in 6 days, do I let it go and move on or do I try to fix it.
Just lost my relationship and don’t know what to believe
7 Cups Online Therapy / by Mykidsb4me33
Last post
 October 1st, 2021
...See more I was dating someone for the past year after being single 100% for 3 1/2 years. I wanted to be mentally healed from my past 17year relationship before I started to date again and ended up falling in love with my best friend who is a complete narcissist and sociopath but also has had a lot of trauma in his life he self medicated to try to deal with his own emotions which was like being on a roller coaster for us. His dad who I was also friends with (who’s semi paralyzed) made up lies about me to his son after coming onto me and being rejected. His son chose to believe his dad. Which has left me heart broken and confused. I loved him a lot he was my best friend even with all his flaws. So now I’m stuck questioning our entire relationship and am fine one minute and heartbroken the next. It’d be nice to have someone to talk to right now
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