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Cognitive Reframing & How to Do it!

LisaMeighanMScGMBPsS August 18th, 2022

Hi community! I hope you are all well :) Today we are going to learn about cognitive reframing and I hope you find it useful!

What is Cognitive Reframing?


Cognitive reframing is a psychological technique used to change your current mindset from a negative to a more positive mindset. When we look at things negatively, it can increase stress, anxiety and depression but when we look at them positively we feel more empowered, positive and engaged. Cognitive reframing causes a cognitive shift which then means our thoughts, feelings and behaviour is likely more positive.

Cognitive reframing may help cognitive distortions which distort your thinking and then impact your behaviour. An example of a cognitive distortion is the following:

All or nothing thinking


  • We characterise something as being either all good or all bad. There is nothing in the middle and it is one or the other.


All-or-nothing thinking can lead to difficulties in our relationships with ourselves and others because we do not look at alternatives and instead we see something in just one way which can be harmful. Have you noticed yourself engaging in this type of thought pattern? We all do this from time to time as we all have cognitive distorted thinking from time to time but a useful technique may help you below.

Encouraging Cognitive Reframing:


1. Focus on a negative or challenging thought that you’ve had recently, for example, "I am going to fail my next assignment as I've not worked hard enough"

2. Become more aware of your thoughts and how often you are having them

3. Evaluate the thought, is it rational? Or does it need more exploration?

4. Challenge your thought, does it make sense? Where is the evidence?

5. Reframe it to a more positive thought, for example, "Today I am going to do my best and I can submit a valuable piece of work"

Can you share today an example of a thought you have had that you perceived to be unhelpful, and how you cognitively reframed this?
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Dalladi August 25th, 2022

Something I thought was unhelpful was my anxiety. Now I realize it is just a signal to me to pay attention to what I'm thinking and believing and to take the drivers' seat position in my own life. Projecting what I desire in a codependent way is not useful. Going within and finding the acre of diamonds I'm actually standing on, the inherent opulence and limitless possibility is what my anxiety is telling me to do.


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gracefulBelle August 26th, 2022

@Dalladi

Wow! This is insightful. Never thought to see anxiety this way.

Thank you for sharing!

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LisaMeighanMScGMBPsS OP August 30th, 2022

I am really loving reading your reframing messages! Keep them coming to yourselves and here in this space that we share together as they are very helpful :)

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Kbashan September 1st, 2022

Thank you for this. I struggle a lot with "all or nothing thinking". I needed this reminder today. 🤍

INFJstyleMe September 10th, 2022

Awesome, @LisaMeighanMScMBPsS, thank you. Can we say that cognitive reframing is a part of the CBT? 👀


gracefulBreeze2878 September 10th, 2022

@LisaMeighanMScMBPsS I have always had the fact that I don't have a girlfriend as a negative thought thinking that there was something wrong with me but I have turned it into a positive thought by realising that it's just a matter of finding someone compatible with me.

HopePeaceLove3377 September 11th, 2022

When someone doesn't trear me the way i want. I re-think that he maybe having some issues and not related to me