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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: Violinninja1112
Violinninja1112 February 24th, 2017

Been self harming for maybe a year but I haven't for like a month:)

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 25th, 2017

@Violinninja1112

That's great! I hope you are proud of yourself! and keep being kind to yourself :)

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User Profile: Bonnes
Bonnes February 24th, 2017

4 months :)

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 28th, 2017

@Bonnes

:) I hope you are proud of yourself~ I'm very proud of you:) keep taking care of yourself and staying strong! Here anytime you want to talk:)

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User Profile: Bonnes
Bonnes February 28th, 2017

@Rosiexx Thank you very much, but I relapsed 2 days ago

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 28th, 2017

@Bonnes

That's ok, know that slip ups are normal and you are not starting over! You can simply stand up again where you are and keep going~ It's always about making progress and 4 months is pretty impressive:)if you want to talk I'm here anytime <3

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User Profile: xbritx
xbritx February 25th, 2017

i have been self harming for 5 years. i have been to treatment a few times and i am currently in recovery.

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User Profile: xbritx
xbritx February 25th, 2017

i was self harm free for almost 18 months until 3 days ago.

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 25th, 2017

@xbritx

and it's ok to slip up sometimes, even though it can disappoint us~ you can get back up and keep fighting <3 and remember listeners here are always willing to listen and support you through recovery:) Always here if you want to talk~

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 25th, 2017

@xbritx

I'm so glad you are in recoery! Keep up the work and take care of yourself! <3

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User Profile: metalmaiden5925
metalmaiden5925 February 25th, 2017

5 years clean today... Never thought it would happen.

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User Profile: lightTortoise1929
lightTortoise1929 February 27th, 2017

@metalmaiden5925

That's a huge milestone! That's amazing. I'm so proud of your dedication, and I hope you give yourself plenty of time to celebrate. Never stop fighting, and while there will always still be hard days, you've made it so far already, and I know you can keep going.

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User Profile: themackdude79
themackdude79 February 27th, 2017

I've been off and on since the 6th grade and I'm a senior that's about to graduate

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 28th, 2017

@themackdude79

That's amazing! Keep up with the healthy coping skills <3

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User Profile: generousOak7414
generousOak7414 February 28th, 2017

Thirty minutes

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User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx February 28th, 2017

@generousOak7414

That's good~ but it sounds like you are going through some rough times~ Listeners here including myself are here to support and listen to you anytime~ Take care, and try to go another 5 minutes without self harming, then go another 5~ Stay strong!

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User Profile: generousOak7414
generousOak7414 February 28th, 2017

@Rosiexx

I am having a really rough time. I cut again recently

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User Profile: DaelynTheDinosaur
DaelynTheDinosaur February 28th, 2017

It's been about 5 days since i've cut myself.... is that bad???

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User Profile: lightTortoise1929
lightTortoise1929 March 1st, 2017

@DaelynTheDinosaur

No! That's great! It can be super difficult to stop cutting, and often the first few days are the hardest, so you're doing really well. Keep it up and be proud of yourself.

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User Profile: pinkholo
pinkholo February 28th, 2017

3 days <3

User Profile: ShallPass22
ShallPass22 March 1st, 2017

I went 4.5 years between episodes. I'm not harming as much as I was before that gap, so there's that. Most recently it has been 27 days. I can ususally wait till everything heals before I feel urges again.

User Profile: itsthorne
itsthorne March 1st, 2017

71 days :)