how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)
I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.
It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be
you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.
and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.
I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.
if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.
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22 days, which is the longest I've been sh free in almost 2 years!
That's great @SapphireSong8 !! 22 days is awesome! I know you can make it to a month, then after the month make it two months, then three, exc. Just mark the days off on the calendar or whatever, then before you know it, you'd make it years. But remember: relapse is a part of recovery, so don't be upset if you do, it will just make you stronger the next time 
Stay strong, we're all on your side and here if you need any help or support! Good luck!
@KatHellsing
Thank you so very much! I honestly think your reply was the highlight of my day. Your gratitude means the world. :)
@SapphireSong8 you're welcome! I'm really glad that helped 
I'm always here if you need to talk or anything
2 days 😔
That's great! I know two days doesn't feel like much but every minute that you choose to refrain from self harming counts! Even if you slip up just remember its not the end of the world and tomorrow's a new day. I have been self harming for the past 10 years and the last time I relapsed was over a year ago. I got to this point by taking it one day at a time :) keep your chin up you're doing well and we are here to support you :)
thank you :)
I've gone from 6 years to about two weeks..
I just wanted to tell each and every one of you that even if it's been a few minutes, a few hours or a few days, you are amazing! You are a lot stronger than you think and no matter what has happened, the entire 7 Cups community is here to support you!
@anchoredwithhope Sweetie you are so lovely, I hope that you to know just how amazing it is! Times get hard and times get better and we have to teach ourselves to focus on the better. *hugs* You are special don't forget that <3
I promised myself I wouldn't cut over the holidays due to the fact that my mom water to take pictures. I'm so happy it's been three days now of course I still have the urge but I think it's getting better. :)
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@DKT26
That's great @DKT26 😄 3 days is very good. Every minute that you don't self harm is great. Please remember that relapse is a part of recovery. Don't be discouraged if you slip up a few times, In the long run, it will make you stronger and you will be able to ignore the urge. You are doing very well :) We are all here for you. Best of luck :)
Thank you so much! 🙂
I promised myself I wouldn't cut over the holidays due to the fact that my mom water to take pictures. I'm so happy it's been three days now of course I still have the urge but I think it's getting better. :)
One year and a day.....
@LovePom One year and a day!! That is so amazing. I am so very proud of you and i hope you are too. That's a whole 366 days.. simply amazing, well done!!
I haven't count properly but more than a month and if I ignore the small mistakes it's 1 year and 7 months now 😊
@doritos Way to go!! That is awesome. You are awesome. That is something to be super proud of and i am so proud of you! Keep up the good work!!
9 months
@persistentMaple4066 *Hi 5* you are going so well my friend. 9 months.. wow!! I hope you are very proud of that cause i am very proud of you too!!
3 months
@Brokendoll31 
well done with your journey this far. So awesome to hear that you have reached 3 months. I'm so very proud of you!! Keep going strong and you are never alone..
It's been a week now since i've stopped
@Mystic79615 I'm so proud of you sweetie, well done. You have stopped and that is the first step in getting better. How are you doing now? And never forget you are not alone, we are all here for you!!