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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: blueHouse977
blueHouse977 August 25th, 2015

I haven't physically self harmed in 2 1/2 months. I have mentally beat myself up. Like telling myself I am stupid and ect. Does it count if it doesn't leave a scar

User Profile: peachOak1629
peachOak1629 August 26th, 2015

11 hours :(

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User Profile: AbbyCDEFG
AbbyCDEFG August 26th, 2015

That's amazing!! I'm really proud of you, keep it up! :)

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User Profile: lightGlobe8412
lightGlobe8412 August 26th, 2015

I never self harm myself before but to those who do keep calm and talk to someone who is willing to have a conversation on strategies to stop self harm. ^_^

User Profile: EnnoblingEnigmatic
EnnoblingEnigmatic August 26th, 2015

8 years. Last time I self harmed was my sophmore year of college, I was 19. I'd been caught self-harming when I was younger, but instead of helping, my family made fun of me and swore at me. So I just started cutting where clothes would hide it. Couldn't hide it from my boyfriend though, so he asked me gently but firmly to stop, and I haven't self harmed in 8 years, and I no longer have the urge at all. I don't know if my brain chemicals just settled or if I just had something in my life that felt better than cutting, but I'm so glad. I still blush when I see my scars on my shoulders and hips, especially during swimsuit season, but if anyone ever asks me about them I'll tell them the truth and that if you cut one day you can will get better if you want, you just need love ( and maybe some meds if misfiring horomones are a big part. )

User Profile: Rebekah3137
Rebekah3137 August 26th, 2015

I haven't self harmed in 6 months

User Profile: voilaitslala
voilaitslala August 26th, 2015

Two days :( but hopefully it will progress.

User Profile: carefulTiger1351
carefulTiger1351 August 26th, 2015

Update: it's now been almost 3 months since I left my pain on my body.. But it's very hard to resist now with what I'm going through :(

User Profile: BrightSummer889
BrightSummer889 August 26th, 2015

37 Days clean

User Profile: BrightSummer889
BrightSummer889 August 26th, 2015

It's been 37 days since I harmed myself & with the Stress that I'm currently under, I have been close so 'relapsing' many time's now 😔

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August 26th, 2015

@BrightSummer889 you still fight, Gosh, you're so strong! Remember me today from the Group chat ? I'm still with you. Lots of hugsss for you! heart

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User Profile: independentHemlock16
independentHemlock16 August 27th, 2015

2 days