I’m very mad at my mother
My mom said she was surprised my boyfriend dated me. She said that because he’s so fit and muscular, she’s expect him to be with someone else who is fit and more in shape, not someone like me whose a lazy couch potato who eats cookie crumbl all day. But all is forgiven because she said “no offense” before offending me. When I tried talking to her and said how that was really mean, she said I was being overly sensitive again and I need to get over that.
am I justified in blocking my mom for a little bit? Keep in mind, I live on my own by myself with my own job about three hours away from her. She said this to me when I was visiting. Also I don’t sit on the couch, I actually am trying to be more fit which I also mentioned to her and she still said I’m being over sensitive. Talking to her is exhausting sometimes.
@drzombienoodles blocking her for a while is definitely justified. You don't need to put up with that kind of toxic behaviour from anyone🙁 I know she's your mum, so it's difficult, but please don't pay any attention to nasty'ness like that. Hugs you tightly ❤
@drzombienoodles
Totally justified in blocking her and perhaps limiting contact.
Is there any reason she is being that way with you? Difficult childhood or some sort of issue?
My mom used to say rude things to me and "no offense" is what a narcissist would think covers it. I found out from my step dad ......she had issues with my independence and strength and she wanted to make snide comments to bring me down a bit.
@drzombienoodles
There’s a lot of times I can’t tolerate my own mom and tbh idk who would. I blocked her to show her that I’m not gonna take it from her anymore.
So yes, absolutely, you are in fact more than justified in blocking your mom till you’re ready to unblock and communicate with her again. When that is though is completely up to you.
