Relationships
Am I the only one who feels insecure when their partner goes out? I know I sound like a typical bunny boiler, I get what it looks like.
BUT my boyfriends friends are proper 'lads' its the only way I can explain it, but everytime my boyfriend says hes seeing them I just feel absolutely rubbish, it wouldn't matter if it was his other mates its just these certain ones. I always have the thought that he may cheat, even though hes nothing but 100% loyal to me.
Help...
@persistentHuman5943
I can't necessarily blame you. If his friends have shown behavior that makes you uncomfortable, it's only natural to think your boyfriend could be influenced by it. If I were in your position, I'd feel like there are only two choices. Talking to him is one option but seeing that you haven't witnessed your boyfriend acting any different, then you may not want to make waves. Another option is keeping a close eye on the situation and maybe getting to know his friends more. Perhaps if you can understand them a little and build up a friendship with them, it could make you feel less tense and trust them more.
I hope this helped a little, good luck!
@TrueArrow you're so right on that one, I kind of wish i had a closer relationship with his friends because I feel as if I would be more at ease knowing they're good guys.
I just feel like everytime he goes out with them I just contantly worry and it just causes an uncessery argument which I hate, I never used to be this sort of person but ever since I got cheated on by my ex I'm always so paranoid of it happening again which almost makes me feel as if I'm not good enough, you know? Don't want to be one of them typical girls who doesn't let her boyfriend go out which I do, I don't care what he does. But sometimes I wish I could just not care.