My Members Account Deactivated!?
I just can't believe what just happened...
My members account got deactivated!????
why is my account so easily deactivated when clearly I had done nothing wrong!?
I need that account to just be a member and have someone actually talk to me, instead I have someone who just casually didn't listen to me and started calling me "my friend this my friend that"
I am not your bloody friend! If anything you barely know me and you actually asked my name, and instead of using it, you keep calling me friend????
Oh sorry if I actually called that listener out and explained that it was just like how guys call ever girl they hook up with "babe"
and I did something wrong? should I have blocked that listener instead and said "I just didnt like the way he kept calling me that"???????
well??? if we can clearly block anyone for any reason, I probably should just come on here as a guest and forget an account!
@newbiebunny
Email 7 Cups. Also private message management. I'm sorry this happened to you
@newbiebunny
Please email community@7cupsoftea.com and they will help you figure out what happened.
awww. this happened to me also. it sucks, but you can at least file a report and get your account reactivated. i hope they change this feature soon.
hmmm is the "friend" thing a particular trigger for something else? like maybe brings up a traumatic experience? but yeah i usually try to explain to the listener if something makes me uncomforable. Use "I" statements and try to do calmly at first like "When you call me friend, it makes me feel frustrated, because of these traumatic relationships I had...." If they clearly don't take the request to not do something well, or keep doing it anyway, it's best to end the chat as soon as possible before your anger/anxiety spikes. just my two cents.