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The art of loving others

Mustafa97Ee October 6th, 2023

Prophet Muhammad said: “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.

I started following this saying in my life. but, in a boarder way. Anyone I meet, I consider them to be people for whom I am responsible. I do not mean that I tell them what to do, but I consider them as brothers or sisters. I care and won’t be bothered by them. I wish him all the best. I treat them as a family. 💚

Applying this made me love others more.💚

Selfishness has spread a lot these days because people try to focus on themselves too much.
I want to do the opposite. 🙂

  Not only for the sake of people, but for the sake of repairing myself, so that not an ounce of hatred or jealous remains inside me towards anyone.

 It may sound silly, but I consider everyone family to me. 💚

I will admit that I used to hate someone in one of the chats here because they spends all the time in one of the chats and wastes their time. Although I help people as much as possible, I was not able to control my feelings at the time... but now I feel that I want the best for them. I feel that I would be more happy if everyone I see them happy and making the most of their time.

but ofc I am a normal human after all, I do mistakes, I made few of my friends angry or sad ( and I regret it )

but I hope to become better and better. 💚

Prophet Muhammad said, “None of you believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.” 💚

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soulsings October 7th, 2023

@Mustafa97Ee thank you for reminding us that we are all family. That is a wonderful practice and the wider we can extend that circle,  the greater our love.

This is a universal message with the religions I have studied. It is encouraging to me that we share so much in common. 

MeaningfulSilence October 7th, 2023

@Mustafa97Ee 

Hello there Mustafa97Ee! 

Thank you for your post and for having shared your experience, how you are improving your life for good!

There are several Quranic verses related to building relationships, including Surah Al-Hujurat, which emphasizes the importance of respecting others and avoiding gossip, and Surah Ar-Rum, which highlights the importance of empathy and kindness in relationships.  

Wishing you all the best  💙

Tulipsmile October 8th, 2023

@Mustafa97Ee  

نبينا محمد عليه افضل الصلاة والسلام 

Thank you for your all kind word . 

Everything you wrote in the post is truly beautiful and touching words, and it is good that you think this way and treat others this way, and frankly there is no one better than our honorable Messenger that we can imitate, may Allah bless you.