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friendship is not magic

User Profile: nomboomboom
nomboomboom February 7th, 2023

I have a friend but I don't know if we are friends anymore because of his actions. He ghosted me during break and lowkey replaced me with someone else. An example, I got him a xmas gift because he was my friend and he knew that I was going to go give him something, but in the end, he did not give me anything. Honestly, I don't really care until his friend told me that he got all his friends one and even the person he hated one but not me. like bruh I really don't know what I am to him because he even got the person he hated a gift but not me like I know I sound pretty cocky right now but wow. Another example is that we usually play games with each other and sometimes with our other friend, but all of a sudden they stopped inviting me to games and they just play with each other and it hurts. If we do play together I get left out. I know it sounds like I am listing all the bad things he has done but I know he is a good person and sometimes I feel like I am overthinking but with all these events there is no way that I am just overthinking. Now I don't know what to do because I want to drop him but I literally can not because it's hard and I lowkey miss him LMAO...... anyways if you read through this thank you if you have any suggestions or advice or commentary or anything please write something

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User Profile: Bonnie1042
Bonnie1042 February 7th, 2023

@nomboomboom Hello!
Have you tried to ask your friend directly?
Sometimes, when we overthink, we put those ideas first, instead of friendship.

Tell him how important he is for you and tell him honestly your worries, hoping he understands you.

If you get a negative answer... :( ( I hope not) you've got off someone who doesn't support and value as a friend.

Hoping this was helpful!