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I always get rejected for relationships

User Profile: Christv1378
Christv1378 July 4th, 2021

I always get rejected and i had a gf but she dumped me before our first date and I don’t know if it is because i look ugly or something but i guess i am destined to be alone forever

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User Profile: Sventek
Sventek July 8th, 2021

@Christv1378

Maybe it's not the fact you're ugly, but your attitude is an issue instead. The way you feel and think about yourself, is communicated verbally and non-verbally to the opposite sex. They are keen to pick up on how you exude confidence or not. What do most women love? They love confidence, a sense of humor, a casual mannerism, and safe.

Perhaps you may consider investing some time in working on yourself, physically and mentally. You can work out, aka exercise. You can seek out a male mentor. You can do a lot of research into what women like/love about men. You can research what makes for a healthy relationship.

Your limiting beliefs are an issue, more than what you look like. I'd invest there, and work each day - a little at a time - and remember that meeting a woman that is equally interested in you requires an appropriate approach strategy, but after you meet her, you'll need to know how to conduct yourself so that you're coming across genuine, real, and present a positive image of your true self. If you are confident, caring, and a strong man (mentally and physically) then you'll note that their response to you is very different. If you come across too nervous, unpracticed, unaware, without confidence, haven't worked out (exercise), and don't think much of yourself - then, they will pick up on that perfectly and walk away.

Where you look matters, the type of women you seek matters, and how you dress and even your income can matter. Look around at men who gain more female attention, you'll note that they have charisma, tend to work out, take care of themselves, and are confident... deemed safe by a woman.

There is plenty you can do. However, a few things need to change... because going at this the way you are is likely going to only lead to more frustration. You'll find that my tips may help you have better success.

Good luck!