ahhhh help help
im in a relationship with my boyfriend, okay? and its been a year, etc. But I started to freak out (about a month ago) bc of our relationship.
It started bc i caught myself fantasizing about my ex, and i got confused. So I decided to take a break from my boyfriend, and after a while of thinking, we got back bc i realised that i love him, but ever since then, im having anxiety attacks, and it wont stop.
and overall, im just really confused on myself, on why do I feel anxious when im with him?? why am I so freaked out about my thing with him??? I'm really anxious on the thought that i dont love him bc i don't wanna lose him, but its like i cant seem to stop
i need advice, or something, pls :(
You know, gut feelings should never be ignored. If something feels off, it probably is.
@BlueGxrl3
hey dear! i'm really glad that you opened up about it and i will try my best to help you out on this! i can see you're having a hard time with your feelings about your boyfriend, and its completely understandable! please correct me if i'm wrong but to summarize it you're having second thoughts about being with him because you had thoughts about your ex and now you're scared and thinking that u might not love him like oyu thought you did?
all relationships have their ups and downs my dear and at some point we all have these thoughts where we're just not sure about our relationship when everything is going smoothly, we think about all the what ifs and anxiety makes us think things that mgiht not even be true, i cant say they're cold feet or something like that but what i can tell you is that sometimes confiding in the person you love migiht be able to help you with this and they'd try to help you figure it out, or maybe taking a break from your relationship and figuring the path your heart chooses for you might help as well!
i hope what i said helped you! Dont hesitate to seek me out if you need me, i'm always here for you!
have a good day! :))
Is it a good anxious or bad anxious?