Will I ever find love?
Nothing is working out for me and I am so lonely, I don't even have friends, they backabbed me, and when I left them they didn't even try and come get me, I just want someone to care about me as much as I care about them...
I don't know what to do... I'm basically hoping that everything will be ok in he future, but what if it isn't, what if I never find someone.
I'm... Alone in this fight of depression and loneliness.
I'm so sorry love that you are feeling like this. It's super reasonable that you don't have faith in the future when those you cared about the most seem to have betrayed you. Firstly, I would like to tell you that's completely valid and it's also okay to take things day by day, as they come. You've been strong battling this, it's great that you can reach out and post a thread about it, something to definitely be proud about. If you ever want to talk, my PMs are totally open for you to drop by.
Would love to hear more about you, love, take care! You are not alone.
@HLAlone Your feelings are completely understandable, when friends backstab you or betray you, it is normal to feel lost and alone. We are social people and friendships that are built on trust, loyalty, and having similar and interests and values is important, however it can take a while to find those true friends. It hurts when friends turn out to be different than you thought, but please believe that it is not your fault or a reflection on you at all, but rather a reflection on them. Take this time so hammer out what you really want in a friend, what kind of a friend you want to be, and then work on building friendships from there. You are worthy of people who will treat you with respect and love, and if you continue to put yourself out there, you will find those people.
@milomom13 Nicely said, honestly :)
@HLAlone
Hi. It sounds like youre having a difficult time. Being lonley can be hard, and be depressed on top of that can make it harder. I always say you never know waht the future will hold, and you have the power to create it. Whether you believe it or not, you can change the future with your choices and decisions. Make some small goals based on what you want and need and keep working it. It may not work out at first but if you keep trying you be more apt to be sucessful.
@HLAlone, sounds like you are feeling very alone, and I am Surry to hear your feeling that way. I also have problems making friends and having them stay because very few do stay.. but I am thankful for 7cups :).. please reminder listeners and the community is here to support you :)