To my SO -- You are Responsible for your own happiness
Below is a letter i actually just sent to my SO, who I learned today, had contact with his affair partner. (She ows him money.)
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When people have affairs, and their spouse discovers it, usually one of 2 things occurs. The person moves out because they are choosing the affair partner over their spouse, or the person stays and apologizes profusely to the spouse, basically saying that they would do anything to keep the marriage.
Obviously, you are not in either of those 2 places.
I'm thinking that you are here only because of the longevity of our marriage and because you don't want the humiliation of moving out and giving up all that we have. I'd like there to be more to our relationship, but I can't force it.
There is a minimum, though, that I need. I need there to be no contact. That was the agreement. Necessary contact by email with me copied. Anything less tells me that you do not want to do the work necessary to stay in our marriage.
Happiness, is, at least partially, a choice. The rest is about asking for help when you need it.
@fearlessOak3002
I'm so sorry love. Thank you for sharing. You seem like such a strong and intelligent person :)
@Prosperkitty, thanks. I'm still holding out hope. We're both still here. He knows I love him. I'm trying to hold on to my integrity.
@fearlessOak3002
I get it love :). Hope is such a strong feeling, sometimes it's the only thing that keeps me positive. And sometimes, being hopeful is all we can really do~
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