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Should I continue my relationship with my bf?

TheOneThatGotAway09 January 5th, 2020

I have a 1yr and a half relationship.,

We both are employed

Im 28- my goal is to get married and get pregnant since a woman's ovaries has expiration.,

I am a bit unsure with my boyfriend.,

In our culture's tradition (usually a guy would make all arrangements and provide money for the wedding) like how my dad do that for my mum.,

We talked about wedding.,

he asked what if he proposes to me but he isn't gonna give a ring., (To be honest I am bit disappointed) I kept quite and then he told me i was (Materialistic) ~

Wedding., he told me that we should have 50/50 contribution no matter what, I told him that i can only contribute 30percent., he said "Let's end this relationship, there will be no wedding if its not 50/50"

So the question is should i still continue with this relationship or nahhh its not worth it?

Or am i in the wrong side? What should i do?

Please help.

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LIttlePerson147 January 5th, 2020

@Aorina28, maybe you should wait and strengthen your relationship. make sure he's really the one you want before anything else happens.

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TheOneThatGotAway09 OP January 5th, 2020

@LIttlePerson147 - lots of things showing he is not that one., he is even mad with me supporting my mum., and he is against all my hobbies and the things that makes me happy.,

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LIttlePerson147 January 5th, 2020

@Aorina28, he is trying to change you then. they are not good for you if they try to change you.

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TheOneThatGotAway09 OP January 5th, 2020

@LIttlePerson147 - i am also trying to change his bad habits and attitudes., is it bad for me to do it as well?

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LIttlePerson147 January 5th, 2020

@Aorina28, break up with him if you really want to follow your own path and lead a happy life.

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LIttlePerson147 January 5th, 2020

@Aorina28, yes he's stubborn. you should probably not marry him.