Relationship
I have insecurities about myself because I constantly compare myself with other girls and hence somehow hamper our relationship...Instead of building our bond, I try and break it because of overthinking and insecurities...Now that I know what my problems are, I need solutions for it
@walnuts8199 It's an experience that many can relate to, and we all have our insecurities. We also all have uniquely, admirable qualities. None of us are perfect, even the people you compare yourself to, and there are things about you that they might be envious of as well. I understand it might be hard to not act out when you have such compelling emotions. Instead of holding it in, can you identify traits inside of yourself that you are glad you have? And what do you think might happen if you talked to him about how you felt and your insecurities?
@walnuts8199 Hello, I hope you are doing better now but I just want to appreciate that you realised and accepted that you have an issue to work because that alone takes immense courage. We as humans are imperfect and comparisons is something that almost everyone does on a daily either consciously or unconsciously I just want you to know that some days will be better than others, some days you'll think you're over that now and other days might feel like you are just consoling yourself and lying to yourself so be patient with yourself, don't be too hard on yourself if you find those thoughts crossing your mind or being envious or comparing yourself to another. Take it day by day. We were all made different and that's what makes us all special. Trust yourself and your love. Learn to love yourself first and then accepting other's love becomes easier.