Long distance relationship while bf dont trust me
Hello people,
Im scar, i have issues with boyfriend. He dont trust me in general. He does trust me that i will never ever hit a guy, never talk with guys never leave his side and never ever tend to do bad things to harm our committed relationship because im not that type of girlfriend who leaves sides when its comitted. Yes i did lied in minor cases, but j never had intention to lie alot, never ever. When my boyfriend ask me anything, Im always honest with him, like deep honest. He finds my text illogical and thinks i lie, whilw im not, i just cant get words to say and proof. We are in long distance for 6 months and still going on. We cant call or video call as hes a US army. I cry and cry. Idk how to make him trust me. He says that he dont and cant trust me. But i know nothing is impossible, i will try my best to gain trust to him. I badly need help. i wish to get a relationship therapist but sadly i dont have money for that. I feel suffocated and tensed, trying harder to think what i can do. Plz help me. Please
I give you a different perspective - what if he is the one who needs to change, and not you?
It can be difficult to trust people again, especially after disappontments and moreover in a long distance relationship. However, his lack of trust and his insecurities are his responsibility. He may ask you for reassurance, but it is unthinkable that you should feel bad about it, cry and ruin your days.
Perhaps, it would be time to have a conversation about this, letting him know that this situation is no longer sustainable.
I hope things can change, take care
@Lifeonmars787
I am not texting him as he said he will ignore, im giving him the time he needs. I will wait for his reply
