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SpiritTea July 7th

Hi there! I'm new to this...

I've been in a 9mo relationship that I really enjoy, but lately there's been a lot of arguments and I feel really bad about them. I don't know if I'm the problem or if it's not me? I'm just stressed and feeling bad. I really love my bf and I don't want to break us apart or anything. I just want to inprove

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dandelionthoughts October 23rd

@SpiritTea

Hi! I’m sorry to hear that you are having a rough time. It can be very difficult to navigate relationships. It was very brave of you to reach out for help. What makes you think that you are the problem? How has your relationship changed over time?
whitewing11 October 31st

@SpiritTea Hi there! Welcome to 7cups!

Congratulations on taking the first step towards addressing your concerns and improving your relationship.
It's normal to have arguments, especially after 9 months. Identifying the issues can be challenging, but you're already showing self-awareness and willingness to grow. We are here to listen to you. Feel free to reach out to us, if you want to!
coolcapybara24 November 2nd

@SpiritTea Thank you for sharing, the main reason of the arguments may be communication problems. Talking things out when you guys have had time to cool down after a heated moment may help with this situation.
TheCalmKnight Friday

@SpiritTea

Hey, welcome! It sounds like you're going through a tough time, but it's great that you're reflecting on it and want to improve. Arguments happen in many relationships, and it's not always about being the "problem." Sometimes it's just about communication or different expectations. The fact that you care and want to work things out with your boyfriend is a good start. Have you been able to talk to him about how you’re feeling?

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