Hi Everyone

Hello I am excited to be here.  I am here looking for support and feedback.  

Just a summary of my situation. I moved across my entire country and moved somewhere I can’t speak the language (not so smart) to be with my long distance boyfriend.  We have been through a lot of issues since my move over 3 years ago.  I won’t get into those at this point as I don’t want to write a novel.

Our big issue at this point is poor communication and we have major core wounds from our past.  This causes both of us to react poorly and fight.  Also we both are codependent.  I think that especially I will need help to navigate.  At this time only I am willing to seek therapy.

I am happy to be here and get to know some of you!!

Any strategies to break the codependent cycle would be appreciated.  I find it hard to know if I am enabling or just loving.