Feeling sexualized
While in college one day, some random guy took a picture of my butt while I was walking around campus. Since then I've been feeling sexualized, like an object and wary of my surroundings. I mean I've had guys look at me before since I am a big chested woman. I kinda get used to it. But he actually confronted me and showed me the picture that he took. I was beyond disgusted what he showed me. I asked him why he would do that and said that, "If you don't want a picture taken then you shouldn't be wearing those types of pants." I don't get what was wrong with wearing leggings since I have been since middle school. Now I get it wearing leggings shows off too much booty, but as a woman I can wear whatever I want. Oh and to top it off he said i had a big ass! We as women shouldn't have to go through this type of harassment. Let alone have some stranger take a picture of our butts like that.
@MarisolRodriguez
I am so sorry that happened to you. I understand how that must feel. I hope you can heal from this! Stay strong.
You should never be ashamed of what are you wearing or do you have big or small shape of breast or back. There will be always creeps who will do what you written up there. You need to report him to director or who else is charged at the campsus because he took photos of you without your permission. Hope you do well and get better!